About Our Program

Personalized Matchmaking

Dating Services to Meet a Fellow Catholic

TESTAMONIAL

"My brother found his wife through the previous service, and I now consider her, as a sister-in-law, to be one of my dearest friends- I was even the maid of honor at her wedding. Even cooler than that is the fact that I met my now fiancé at their wedding. So, even if you haven’t considered it previously, your services have not only helped those directly involved, but influenced, myself included, those that may have been able to meet new prospects through the clashing of different Catholic groups and families."

Matchmaking
Services

Dating
Bootcamp Class

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Be matched with a fellow retrograde who believes what you believe, loves what you love, lives how you live: the Catholic life of faith!

Ages 18-49 for men and women. (You will be matched to someone in your own age group)

Women's enrollment is FREE!

Men's matchmaking packages:

ACCESS LEVEL:

1 match
Dating Bootcamp ($600 value)

ELITE LEVEL:

Intro assessment call
Dating Bootcamp ($600 value)
Up to 3 matches

VIP LEVEL:

Personalized assessment and guidance ($250 value)
Dating Bootcamp ($600 value)
Three 1:1 personalized coaching sessions ($750)
Bonus content
Unlimited* matches for 12 months

3-day primer for both men and women

comes with all matchmaking packages!

The most effective way to date is when everyone knows the rules and their roles. This is the purpose of Dating with Decorum: align around dating so we can do it properly and politely.

This three-day dating primer goes deep quickly to set men and women on the same page leading up to the Retrograde Matchmaking experience.

WE’LL:

Define dating, its phases, and how best to approach each one
Discuss dating expectations and transformative “secrets” for successful encounters
Outline male-female dynamics, roles in dating, and the best, universal strategies for each sex

since 2023 the gordons have helped to match~9 married/engaged couple...and counting!

Meet the Team

Your Catholic matchmakers

Matchmaker

Timothy Gordon

Timothy J. Gordon Ph.L., J.D., M.A. is a father of seven and a husband of 20 years, who spent the last two of those years matching Catholic singles, where as matchmaker he cooperated in the matching of several couples who ended up getting married. Timothy Gordon is the author of five books including "The Case For Patriarchy and "Leave and Cleave." He hosts the Catholic podcast, Rules for Retrogrades.

Matchmaker

Stephanie Gordon

Stephanie C. Gordon, mother of seven and wife of 20 years, is the author of Ask Your Husband and Leave and Cleave, both being books on patriarchy and the Christian family. Along with her husband, Stephanie spent the last two years matching Catholic singles, where as matchmaker she cooperated in the successful pairing of multiple couples who ended up getting married.

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Matchmaker/Dating Coach

Jillian Kurvers

Jillian is a certified dating & life coach and creator of the Mosaic Model, a distinctively Catholic approach to relationship coaching. After years helping brands communicate authentically and attract the right customers, she now helps people do precisely that using a proprietary approach that gets to the heart of what matters. Jillian is uniquely skilled to coach men and women who ask themselves the age-old question, why am I still single, because she was her own first client. And the answer changed everything.